Ok. So in my 19 years of existence ive come to realize alot of things. Few of my most recent realizations include: 1) you would always meet people who have alot in Common with you. This does not mean you are soulmates or perfect for each other. Stop bonding out of over-excited hormones and spontaneous chat. You'd more often than not get hurt. This is where 'she is not who i thought she was' or 'he has changed' are the end results. Yes she is not who you thought she was, you drew your conclusions too soon. No he hasn't changed, you just never actually Knew him. 2) Most people aren't anti-social. They choose to be alone because they hate spending time with stupid people. 3) Some girls don't realize what they're worth, some guys don't realize what they have. Appreciate what you have right now, because you don't always get a second chance. 4) They say if you love someone, let them go to see if they come back. But if you really love someone, you shouldn't ever let them go. 5) I learned this from someone who used to mean a whole lot to me recently, don't wait for the perfect time before you say what needs to be said. Time goes by fast along with the person. Say it while you still can. 5) This is one that evidence so far has led me to believe is not true. But i really do hope it is. - One day you're going to meet someone who makes you feel happy, beautiful, and stands by you even when you feel you don't deserve them. And this time it'll last. 6) If you're half as confused as i am, a To-do list is a helluva lot of help. Just remember the 'Do' part 7) Money is not everything. I wouldn't be a naive saint and say it's not important because i know it is. I also know however that God, Family and Friends are most important. People put more value on money and neglect to build stable strong relationships with family and friends. Money wouldn't mourn you. Money wouldn't bury you. Money wouldnt call to wish you happy birthday, money isn't human money wouldn't hug you back, money wouldn't love you back. Humans should control money and not the other way around. 8) Just because she doesn't love you the way you want her to, doesn't mean she doesn't love you with everything she has. Just because he doesn't say the lines according to how you scripted it in your head doesn't make what he says any less important. Appreciate people for who they are. Not who you want them to be. 9) Don't ever call anyone ugly. At least not to their face.